My Mother’s American Life

for Sophie My sister says that she was “magnetic”. At our mother’s funeral twenty-two years ago, my sister’s two-year-old daughter, Sophie, cried and said, “My grandmother died, and I didn’t even know her.” When I remember her, my throat tightens …
Bobby’s oral history
Among my unusual experiences in Austria was meeting other Jews my age (now 70) who grew up here. In my first months in Vienna I wanted to swim and so contacted a group run by Hakoah, the Jewish sports club …
Italy, Florence
I’m in Italy, not the first time. My first visit was in 1961, returning to California after a year in India. My mother took us to Europe, organizing stops in Rome, Florence, Venice, then a train to Lugano, Vienna, Salzburg, …
The War in Gaza
January 2024 I have feelings about this war—fear, horror, disappointment, but it has been harder to know what to think. I read the newspapers, trying to make up for a lack of expertise and primary sources. I want to have …
A Californian in New York
People have moved primarily west to California, but Californians also move to New York. My family moved from New York and New Jersey to the Bay Area, in the early 1950’s, for better weather and a different life. Dad took …
Summer 2023
my 70th. I follow the news and have been wondering if I can help the state of the world, but this summer is my 70th, and it has been much easier to cook and take care of my garden. For …
My walks in Vienna

I love cities and buildings and walking around and exploring. My friends are often interested in theatre, art or music, and that makes sense, but for me walking is usually enough. It’s both the seeing and the anticipation that come …
Two months in Paris

We associate the French with beauty, refinement, elegance, grandeur. These are visible everywhere in Paris, as is occasional disorder and chaos, but underlying them is a discipline that is harder to discern. This year I was in Paris for more …
Znojmo, Czechia

Yesterday I returned to Vienna by train from Znojmo, in the Czech Republic. Znojmo was the terminus of my trip, suggesting old links with Austria; however, the train was almost empty when it reached the town on Tuesday morning, and …
Israel at War
It is not clear to me how it works, although I saw it in my parents, but as I get older, more and more of what is important to me is filtered through my Jewish identity. Profoundly uneducated in Jewish …